A Day in a Life

[Nabulod ti ladawan a naaramat]

Couples who have and planning to have an A+ Relationship keep their love life a number one priority.

How to do that? For me and my wife, we sit down together on the first day of every month and review our calendars. We make our romantic plans first, and then fit other like work/job related, meetings/meeting people, appointments and other commitments to our schedule.

It's not bad to share 6 of your 7 days/nights in a week [8 hours/day or 27 days/month] to other commitments or jobs, or to someone/somebody just to say a satisfactory kindness or compassion to others, still, it's the best yet. But giving-away 70% share to your family because of other commitments is too unfair.

Division of labor is the best.

For my/our own division is something like this: 70% goes to the family, the rest is for other commitments like job/work, friends, appontments, etc, etc...Because as we all know, "dependence" isn't healthy in a love relationship. This leads to co-dependency.

Likewise to "independence" also doesn't work well, either. The questions is, "What's the point of being a couple if your main goal is to be independent?"

So, the best thing to do is to be an "interdependence" wherein the goal that people in A+ Relationship aim for because there's a saying: "familiarity does not 'breed contempt'- it's boredom and lack of creativity that breed contempt... that leads to temptation."

HAPPY HEART'S DAY, EVERYONE!


A Day in a Life: 
TOGETHERNESS, 14 February.
Wailuku, Maui
Rudy Ram. Rumbaoa
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